Life and leadership coaching with David Kincaid
Where global perspective meets personal power
David Kincaid offers life and leadership coaching for people standing at major life and identity crossroads, ready to design a life beyond inherited expectations.
Drawing on decades as a U.S. diplomat, nuclear trade adviser, and modern pilgrim, he helps clients slow the noise, listen for what is true, and make bold, grounded decisions aligned with who they are becoming.
For people designing a life beyond inherited scripts
And seeking the clarity, courage, and guidance to live it boldly from someone who has actually done it.
David’s clients are thoughtful, capable people who are questioning the inherited scripts of success - some after years of following them, others before committing to them at all.
Some have built impressive careers, families, and reputations, only to realize the life they achieved no longer fits who they are becoming.
Others are choosing a different path from the beginning - opting out of convention early, seeking a life shaped by meaning, freedom, and global perspective rather than approval or predictability.
What unites them is not rebellion for rebellion’s sake, but a sincere desire to live intentionally - and the recognition that doing so requires clarity, courage, and guidance.
Common themes include:
Desiring freedom - of time, place, and thought - without sacrificing stability, integrity, or impact
Feeling called to design a life beyond traditional expectations
Navigating conversations with family, partners, or communities who don’t understand unconventional choices
Struggling to make big decisions without a clear internal compass or trusted guide
Carrying responsibility, reputation, and financial obligations that make change feel risky
Seeking relationships and community with people who value depth, curiosity, and thoughtful independence
If this sounds familiar, David’s work offers a confidential, grounded space to tell the truth about what is changing and to explore what sovereignty and freedom can look like in your real life.
How David supports clients at the crossroads
David’s coaching sits at the intersection of global perspective, personal sovereignty, spiritual clarity, and embodied decision making.
Clients do not receive a one size fits all formula. Instead, each conversation is a meeting place between your lived experience and his.
Sessions may include:
Somatic awareness and what the body knows
Inner council and inner voices work
Gentle inquiry into “Is this true” around long held beliefs
Clarifying guiding principles and personal values
Ceremony, intention setting, and individualized spiritual practice
The goal is simple: to help you hear what is already true inside you, and then support you in honoring that truth in a way that is honest, responsible, and courageous.
Three ways to work with David
What happens in a Clarity Call
Before beginning any coaching engagement, David meets with prospective clients for a Clarity Call. This conversation is a chance for both of you to see whether the work is a good fit.
During the call you will:
Share the crossroads or questions you are navigating
Explore what you have already tried and where you feel stuck
Get a sense of David’s style and how he thinks about your situation
Decide together whether coaching at this time makes sense and which path might serve you best
